How to Deal with Your First Year at University/College
After my first year, I've got some tips and tricks for you to make the most of it.
Going off to University can be daunting. You're (probably) moving out, (probably) going to a new city, and (hopefully) meeting lots of new people. If you're worrying about it, have a read of this guide from my own personal experience.
Your New Flatmates
If you're moving away from home, chances are you'll be living in a flat with a bunch of complete strangers. This can be worrying, but try not to think too much into it—you're sure to get on with at least some of them. Just be yourself and make sure to introduce yourself to them as soon as you can. Don't be afraid to put a bit of effort in or hang around the kitchen to speak to whoever comes in, and remember: they're feeling the same as you are.
Your Course
Whatever course you pick, you probably won't want to be working for it every day. Unfortunately, sometimes you may have to, especially if you have deadlines. Make sure you keep on top of all your work and go to your lectures, though missing some isn't the end of the world. If you hate your course, you can always change it so don't worry too much. Plus, going to lectures will help you meet even more people and add to your social circle. Lectures, seminars and essays may be boring, but that is what you're paying for after all, so make use of it.
Clubs and Societies
Your University's Students' Union will offer up several clubs and societies that you have the chance to join. There's normally a society fair where you can have a look at what's on offer, so you should try and go to this too. If there's a society you want to join make sure you do—even if nobody you know is involved. You'll meet lots of new people and it gives you something to do each week. Sign yourself up!
Your New City
If you're moving to new place, one of the first things you should do is to explore your local area. You'll want to find out where your lectures are for sure, but don't forget about all the bars, restaurants, and activities you can find in the city centre. I'd suggest asking your flatmates if they'd like to join you as they'll also be keen to explore and this is a good way to start getting to know them.
Going Out
Ah, the highlight of uni life. If you're at uni, you'll be 18 soon and therefore able to go out and drink your body weight in booze, though maybe don't do that. You'll be able to attend several freshers events in the first week or so, but keep in mind the freshers wristband several agencies offer may not always be worth buying. Try and explore several clubs and bars in your first few weeks and find ones you and your friends like for future nights out. Having said all that, if going out isn't for you—don't panic. You don't have to do everything everyone else does, and there's always going to be people who share the same interests as you.
Finances
Uni is expensive, I won't lie. Although it may be boring, budgeting is definitely the right way to keep an eye on your funding. Also, planning meals and ingredients out can help you save money in the long run, especially if you batch cook. Try to get a bank account that offers an overdraft, but you don't want to go into it if you can help it. A part-time or weekend job might be a good idea, and if you live in a football city they tend to always be hiring casual match-day staff.
Remember: if at any point you're finding things tough, there's people there to help. It's so important to speak to someone if you're going through something you can't handle yourself.
And above all, be yourself. Do what you enjoy and you'll have a positive experience.
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